Defending the Raven

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HNT: Ring

So I was at a loss to really get a good pic for this week in line with the Olympic theme. It wasn’t that I couldn’t think of something, but rather that I knew I wouldn’t have the proper time to excute something more involved. The only thing I could come up with was something playing on the Olympic Rings. Then I started thinking about my wedding ring and how it is such an interesting symbol. I don’t put much into my wedding ring. I like wearing it because it has me tagged. I don’t wear it all the time (it tends to come off with my watch and work clothes at the end of the day). But then I also thought more about how in the past it has been something of a taboo. To catch eye contact with people and then see them look at my ring. Or I’ve also had some guys who find out that I’m married and bi get off on the idea of the ring. And there have been times in the past when I’ve had requests that I wear it during…. um… oh hell we all know my past. When I’ve fucked with guys alone there have been a couple times where it was requested that I wear my ring (we won’t delve into the fucked psychology of that; the past is past). I do find it interesting how a little piece of metal can have such a big and small impact. So I thought I’d let my ring be the featured player for this week. Of course, I couldn’t let it be completely about the ring.


August 21, 2008 Posted by | HNT | 5 Comments