Defending the Raven

Bisexual. Married. Man. Open. Read On.

Urging Like Nobody’s Business

So we had a fantastic night hanging out with our great bi coupe friends J&R last night. It had been a while since the four of us had just hung out. Now with J&R there is a sexual past. We met through craigslist. We had a great time together, even broke their bed one night – tehehehehe. But the great thing is that it has evolved into one of the strongest friendships we have. The sexual is not active, but it’s always there. We are very touchy, feely and just very open. It’s actually incredibly refreshing and nice because we can be our most open with them without judgment or without having to impress.

So last night we were hanging out, had a nice dinner at their house. Great drinks, a little pot, and just talking. We got together last night because they have a “play” date set-up with a young couple tomorrow night. Now we have been talking to another couple about meeting too. However, the girl of the couple is moving this weekend so any plans we could have had got railroaded. But in the course of the evening J&R shared the email exchange they were having with their couple and were just having a bawdy good time.

Now sure this is when you would be hoping that we all ended up getting naked and breaking their bed again. Not with J&R. Maybe somewhere down the line, but that’s gonna take the right place, right time, and probably some good drugs.

However, now I’m seriously jonesing for a good night out. But even better a good night out that leads to a great night in.

SR is still sleeping (we didn’t get home till 3:00 a.m.) and I put up an ad on craigslist. So fingers crossed and maybe I’ll have a great story to tell next week.

; ; ; ; ; polyamory


June 30, 2007 - Posted by | Uncategorized


  1. just started reading your blog today. loving the openness and honesty. can’t wait to read more 😉

    Comment by whatisrealnow | July 1, 2007 | Reply

  2. i liked your ad. i hope that goes well.

    Comment by Gracie | July 2, 2007 | Reply

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